There Is Life after Loss
Christian Counseling for Adolescents and Adults Seeking Healing after Losing a Loved One
Telehealth in Kansas
In-Person in Manhattan
What just happened?
Ever since your sister died, life sucks.
Everything is a fog.
It is like you can’t escape the nightmare.
People recognize you as the one who lost your sister everywhere you go.
Sometimes, it’s nice to receive condolences, but most of the time, it catches you off guard like a punch in the stomach.
Your parents are lost in their own regret and grief.
One second, it is like they are looking right through you. Then, the next second your mom is afraid to let you out of her sight, using tracking apps on your phone, making sure you arrive to your destinations safely.
Your faith in God is hanging on threads. How could He let this happen to you? Doesn’t He know how much you need your sister?
Why did your loved one commit suicide?
Every time your phone rings or dings with a text, you jump.
It is like your soul is searching for an answer to your sadness, and the text message is going to give you the answer.
Your automatic thought is that it is your missing loved one.
Your heart craves to hear from them, but instead it takes another stab when you see the message is from someone else.
You keep trying to remember their voice. Sometimes, you listen to old voicemails just to hear them speak, but you must make sure you have a few minutes alone to cry afterwards.
Don’t take my grandma away!
It is a humbling experience to hold the hand of a loved one taking their last breaths. Your mind is warring inside. You know it is their time to go, they lived a long life, and their body wore out.
But it’s not fair – your family needs them. They have weddings to attend and grandchildren to meet.
The next generation needs to know how to make their pies and ride a horse.
Why didn’t we ask them our family history?
Why didn’t we ask them about their time in the military?
How did they manage to stay married so long? What was their secret?
You know they are in heaven now.
You are so thankful they are no longer in pain, but your pain here on earth is hard to bear. What do you do now?
You can’t trust your Command.
Your NCO and CO both say it is okay to seek Behavior Health services, but you see them rolling their eyes and sighing every time a soldier reports they have a Profile and an appointment at DBH.
If you go to DBH and are completely honest with how you feel, you would be referred for medications and put on a Nondeployable Profile.
You want to just feel better.
Isn’t there someone off post that could help you process returning home after losing your best friend downrange? Someone to possibly work with both you and your wife to reconnect after being apart for so long.
Your wife wants you to return to church with her, but you don’t feel comfortable talking about your faith or lack thereof.
I am here to provide the help you need.
People don’t know how to talk with you.
A friend encourages you at least to go back to church. Attend the grief group. Other people talk about
someone they’ve lost. But you don’t want to talk about someone else’s loss.
Processing and healing from a loss in your life can seem impossible and even dishonorable toward your loved one.
Losing your faith in God is another loss that doesn’t need to happen.
I will come along side you to help process your grief, honor your loved one, and discover where God
was, has been, and will always be.
Call me today and start your journey of healing.
It is the start of a life full of peace.
Hi, I’m Megan.
It is my passion to help others discover new life after experiencing an unfortunate death. Feeling lost, alone, and scared for the future are all understandable emotions to experience. But you do not have to continue feeling this way.
Not processing grief has a lasting impact on your health, relationships with others, and prevents you from achieving your dreams in life.
I will be your companion that helps you find your strength to live again.
